Success Begins With Me
Posted by JoyMar 7
I admit it, I have an inferiority complex.
I did say this in my last post, and noted that my feelings of inadequacy are based on the genre in which I write. I pen romantic suspense and young adult fiction, short stories and articles.
Every so often a glowing review of a new work of fiction makes me doubt myself. How does one hope to make even a tiny mark beside writing that’s described as “…a brilliant, sophisticated piece of fiction…” or “A joy to read”?
So, I enjoy plotting my stories, and you can count on me for interesting characters and plot lines, but does that make me a writer of any note?
I’m very much aware that romance novels sell and that there are some talented writers who’ve stamped their names in this genre. I can’t help having doubts and thinking that I might be getting ahead of myself by wanting to chart the same waters these talented people have navigated.
Sure, a publisher said yes, but that hasn’t silenced the doubts. There’s that other little ocean called lack-of-self-confidence that makes me wonder - will the book sell? When people buy it, will they think it’s drivel? Will they want to read anything else I write? How will I deal with bad reviews? And there are a few more questions where those came from.
There are writers and friends whose judgement I trust and they’ve told me I’m a good storyteller. I’m trying to take my own advice and remind myself that if people give me their opinion and enough individuals are saying the same thing independently of each other, then there must be some truth to their thinking.
My second book will be released in October and deals with a couple’s attempts to overcome adultery and a child born outside of their marriage. Dissolution would have been a better project to launch my career as a writer, but Contraband (action/adventure/romance) got to the finish line first.
I suppose at this point on the road to publication, many first time authors get cold feet and start doubting themselves. Other writers make no submissions, for fear of being told no. At various stages in our lives, we all have to make crucial decisions. A career in writing is no different. Some tough questions to ask ourselves - Will I be a career author or a dilettante, dabbling in one project or another, but refusing to step into the world of publishing? When I get a yes, am I prepared to do grunt work to sell copies of my book? Can I cast off my hermit-like tendencies and get my feet wet, networking, arranging interviews, passing out flyers for my book, if necessary?
I spent a while at that busstop, swamped in negative thought. It’s now time to focus less on my doubts and concentrate more on the projects I have saved on my thumb drive. They need to make their way into the world and find homes.
My success as a writer depends on me.
Are you ready to step out on your journey to what you perceive as success?















16 comments
Comment by Kimberly Loomis on March 7, 2010 at 7:01 pm
Doubt plagues us all but, I think, any artist feels this in a more vulnerable fashion. It’s not just words on a page, it’s a piece of us and in order to justify our pursuit of the art we’ve been told to use commercial success as a marker. How could we not buy that when we so desperately want the sanction of the masses? The fans to pour out testaments of how wonderful our work is? The truth is, you’re right. You’re doing what you love, pursuing what you love and so it is really in your hands to a certain extent. The belief in your work needs to first come from you the selling of it should then also be easy since it’s a product you can endorse.
Also - authors of note cleared their own paths despite all the greats that came before them and still we know of Vonnegut despite the existence of Faulkner; McCarthy even though Joyce came first… history is filled with greats, don’t be intimated. There is only one you and so no one else can fill the gap in the industry that would be left without your voice. It is, after all, unique to you.
Comment by Joy on March 7, 2010 at 7:22 pm
Kimberly,
Good food for thought in your comments. Commercial success is indeed the marker we use to measure whether we do well or not.
Haven’t even really thought much about all the authors who’ve carved their own path despite who or what has gone before.
And yes, if I’m confident in my product then I’ll have no problems selling it.
Comment by Tina DC Hayes on March 7, 2010 at 9:44 pm
I’ve read two of your novels at TNBW, and yes, your writing is ‘a joy to read’. I understand your cold feet, stage fright before the books hit the shelves, but I really think your novels will be a big success. I don’t believe I’ve ever seen a speck of drivel with your name on it.
Tina
Comment by Alan Miles on March 8, 2010 at 1:59 am
Flags out, clear the roads, here she comes!
Joy, I loved your honesty here. Of course you feel those doubts - I’m sure we all do. And we have to be rigorous enough with our work to know what will make our reader hungry for the next book or what will leave them indifferent. We need good critics around us too - people who understand us but who aren’t afraid to tell us what stinks.
But you’re so right to be moving forward so positively. At least you’re not going to die wondering whether it could have happened.
See you on the bus.
Alan
Comment by Joy on March 8, 2010 at 9:05 am
Hey, Tina,
Thanks for the encouragement and your kind words. I’m plotting and planning and hoping for success.
Comment by Joy on March 8, 2010 at 9:10 am
Alan,
I agree with you 100%. Part of our job is to get across our message so well that the reader will have no trouble moving on to our next book. And yes, good critics are invaluable.
The truth? I sometimes wonder if I know what the heck I’m doing selling myself as a writer, but I’m on the road and trying to move forward using research and help from those how have gone before me.
Comment by Jeanne Bannon on March 8, 2010 at 9:42 am
Hi Joy - I can attest to feeling the same way. I am always doubting myself. Some days, I feel like I’m the greatest writer in the world and at others (especially if I’m reading a remarkably well written book), I feel like I don’t measure up and never will. How can I possibly write like [insert name of author here]? But knowing that most, if not all writers feel a sense of inadequacy every once in a while should be enough to keep us going and the very fact your books were published should be a reminder of your talent.
Your blog is terrific by the way!
Jeanne
Comment by Alice Audrey on March 8, 2010 at 10:57 am
I think I’m ready to step up to the plate, but the doubts still bother me now and then. I felt like apologizing for my first book when it first came out.
Comment by ANN ELLE ALTMAN on March 8, 2010 at 11:20 am
Great post, Joy. I’m in a similar dilemma as you. I don’t write literary fiction so I know I’m not going to make the same waves in writing that some have and that drags me down a bit but I take pride in the fact that as a writer I’ve done what some only dream of doing…finishing a project.
I’ve read your work and think it’s wonderful…and I’m not just saying that.
ann
Comment by Joy on March 8, 2010 at 11:48 am
Jeanne,
Thanks for stopping in and sharing your thoughts. Thanks also for the card. I don’t think writers ever stop doubting their talent. Think about it - for every 4 or 5 star reviews posted, there’s someone who hated the book and give it a 1 or 2 star reviews. The low rated review is usually the one we refuse to stop thinking about, but I’ve lived long enough to learn how to shake off the negative and focus on the positive.
Comment by Joy on March 8, 2010 at 11:53 am
Alice,
I know you probably didn’t mean for your comment to be funny, but it made me laugh. Yes, some novels get printed and we don’t understand why, but in most cases, the publisher thinks it will sell, so they buy it.
Comment by Joy on March 8, 2010 at 11:59 am
Ann,
I know what you mean. Most people only dream about writing a book. Some start and never finish. People go wide-eyed when I tell them the number I’ve written. You go even further and have codes in your books. How cool is that?
Thanks so much for your kind words.
I’ll remember them when I’m having another case of the blues.
Comment by Fay on March 8, 2010 at 9:35 pm
A big thank you for submitting your blog to the Blogging Women directory.
I have had a chance to complete my review of “Writer On The Go” and it’s my pleasure to inform you that your blog has been added to our women’s blog directory.
Make sure you watch for our monthly blog contest where you have the chance to win a spot in our “Featured Blogs” section.
Continue the fine work you are doing with this blog and thank you for making our women’s blog directory that much more stronger!
Comment by Joy on March 9, 2010 at 9:10 am
Thanks, Fay!
Comment by Laura on March 9, 2010 at 5:09 pm
I can tell you have a lot of talent, so I think you should be strong and trust in yourself, i am sure that you will succeeded. Sometimes we have to dare ourselves to do certain things in life in order to launch our careers. It may be risky but at the end it always pays off, if you don’t succeeded, at least you would have learn something that will be very important in your career. So trust in yourself and go.
Comment by Joy on March 9, 2010 at 5:53 pm
Laura,
I agree we do have to step out and push ourselves further than we think we can go. Perseverance usually pays off. Thanks for stopping in.